Sunday, July 08, 2007

already?!


it's been a year. we've been married for 365 days. can you believe it? i still can't.

there were moments where i just wanted to snap his head into two, kick his nuts til' they're fat and swollen or spit in his food when he's not looking. there were even days when i felt like jumping off a cliff into the wide open sea with a suitcase full of his prized possessions (i.e kitchen aid meat grinder and bbq grill).

but then there are times when he's right there snoring his sinus off, with his mouth wide open, looking completely vulnerable when i know i've made the best decision to date.

he, despite his imperfections, is definitely worth the drama.

*photo courtesy of jason armstrong

28 comments:

Anonymous said...

aaaah lovely.

just make sure the pillows are nowhere within your reach when his snores awaken you while you are dreaming the most exciting dreams.

ps. congratulations on he 365 days.

Crash Test Mom said...

happy anniversary!
now, would u like to order a pair of "i love my husband/wife" t-shirts?

Blabarella said...

Happy Anniversary! And that's a lovely snapshot, by the way.

nicole said...

Congratulations babe, on the one year anniversary and the best decision made :) Hugs

Anonymous said...

Tuhe tu buak molek doh ....

Zaza

KetchupMissy said...

babe with lil' brain,

nasib baik i ni jenih tido mati. otherwise i'd be writing this update from the state pen... muhahahaha!!

shoppermom,

errr, i dah ada tshirt tu. nak order lagi satu pasang buleh?

blabs,

thanks for the wish! pic tu cantek kan? jason my friend is super duper talented. muka apek i terus nampak macam melayu. muhahahahaha!!

nicole,

thanks darling. so when are YOU gonna make a decision of the same kind??!

zals,

my mom's famous words... muhahahaha!! i guess she's right. duo duo kaki make :)

Hyphenated L said...

one year already??? so you CAN share your life...heheheheh.. happy anniversary to the both of ya!

IggySingh said...

wow! congrats madam!

and i loved your posting btw :) very practically romantic..

My So-Called Life said...

biiittttchhhh!!! You made it to 1st year! Really happy for you!!!

Completely forgot your anniv...just like how i always forget you b'days :-)

You guys are truly wonderful and I like your tribute...at least it's not sickeningly sweet!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations!!!! Well as long as you still have your sense of humor intact ...you'll definately enjoy MANY...MANY more years with your man.

I assume your anniversary gift to him was a huge 5 tiered cake with you in it :> ?

From:
Anak tiga tetek takde...

Unknown said...

Oitt Arnie,
Dramatik betul! But yeah..I know what you're talking about. I never had a chance to see you both together, but from what I heard, it sounds like a match made in kitchen..hehe. Anyway, congrats!! May Allah blessed you with many happy days together!

amai

Anonymous said...

hey arnie!!

happy anniversary beb! btw...those feelings bout him, habits that you see in him and bla bla bla...THOSE will never go away...gotta LIVE with it for the rest of your life!!!!!!!!!! But..at the end of the day, it's those imperfections and little arguments each day that keep you both tighter than ever :-) Regards to hubby.

Anonymous said...

Arnie,
Congrats! :) Time definitely flies. It has been almost 10 years since I left AA. We were all so "budak2", and it was different kind of happiness then. He he.

Here's wishing you and hubby many many many more happiness!

KetchupMissy said...

L,

i don't know about SHARING... i still hate the fact that he uses my moisturizer and eye cream more so than i do!!

iggy,

thanks for the wish :) and yeah, am romantic that way... muhahahaha!!!

nina,

can you imagine?? me? still married? bet lotsa people lost lotsa money coz of that... muhahahaha!!

btw, ko memang... tiap2 tahun lupa besday aku. satu sen pun tak guna. nasib baik i lap you :)

so-called anak 3 tetek takde,

let me see... hmmmm... are you...? or are you...? i got tons of frens yang beranak tiga tetek takde...

this is a tough one... but am betting you're my daging dendeng maestro. betoi tak??!! hehehehehe :)

nope, there was no cake -- we went to eat lunch and tido terbonkang sambil tengok tv. romance tak romance lah!

amy,

yes, we're definitely "made in kitchen." ni a year later, dua2 dah boncit macam mengandung 4 bulan. so tak senonoh...

fatin!!

ama tak dengar kabar :) i remember how you wanted us to teleconference you masa akad nikah pasal you tengah pantang and kanot make it. hahahaha!! how time flies kan.

am coming back in august. we HAVE to meet up!!

izzat,

yeah, those were the days... *sigh* now kita dah tue bangke. haven't seen you in awhile. what you up to lah?

thanks for the wish!

Anonymous said...

Muahaaa...yes I am the dendeng maestro!!!!

Apara...no kids yet and you didn't do anything romatic like bungee jump together whilst renewing your vows?!!!??

See ya in August!!

Unknown said...

Arnie,
Whateverlah..asal korang berdua bahagia. Better be silly together than alone. Btw, any plans for NYC anytime soon?

Fatin,
I didn't know that you've a third one by now! A daughter too:). Congrats!!!

Izzat!
Are you still in S'pore?

Amai

KetchupMissy said...

dendeng maestro,

no, no... no bungee jumping of the sort for us. he is chicken shit -- naik cable car kat langkawi pun dah nak pengsan.

and when i come back, you better teach me how to make that cili paste you kasi i makan hari tu (or whatever you call it). i try la buat from memory, tak sedap langsung!!! ayer liur meleleh je mengenangkan the real deal... *sigh*

amy,

nope, no plans to go nyc. gotta save up for trip to europe... so bankrap ke belum??

Unknown said...

Arnie,
betul tu. You should better save up for the trip. It's freaking expensive esp. now with low USD exchange rate. Bankrap?! Hehhe..gua sudah kena carik kerja lo..cannot be tai-tai no more.

amreeth said...

p.s. i have started a new blog. not iguana related!
hugs :)

[rena] said...

Lembu.

Congrats on the 1 year mark.
Does your Mr. Lembu know of this husband-bashing blog of yours? I bet that would be a great anniversary gift....:P

From : Anak Tiga Tetek Berganda!

Anonymous said...

Anak tiga tetek BERGANDA,

How do you keep it big...or the very least maintain it's "original form"?

Arnie,

Will await for your glorious arrival and make you wash the dishes ...Oppsiee.. I meant watch me cook. Heheee...

From,
Anak 3 tetek takde....

KetchupMissy said...

amy,

no more tai2??? wtf??? NOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

iguana/amreeth,

your new blog is deeeeeeeeeeeeep.... it's like you have a split personality -- insightful iguana lady. i like :)

lembu,

he does know abt this blog... hasnt seen it yet tho!! and of coz dia tak tau aku dok bashing dia online... but then again, since aku memang dok kutuk dia 24/7, it would be stupid for him to not expect the same thing here... hahahaha!!!

tetek takde anak tiga,

wash the dishes??!! tak nak aaaah!!! i wanna makan!!!

p/s i like your discussion with "ms. berganda"...

NLN said...

Happy Annivessary !

Rasa baru lagi I drove all the way from KL to Teypeng.. and on the way back, minum the nescafe depan your house tu, heheh!

KetchupMissy said...

seen_er,

hehehehe... ye la kan, i never did thank you enough for coming all the way to tepen. lagi pulak, only saw you from far!! bye2 sana, bye2 sini... tegok2 you dah balik.

am still pissed that my MILO van didnt turn up. sooooo wrong!!

amreeth said...

hehehe :) thanks!
i am so glad you like.

Anonymous said...

Amy,Arnie,
Yes, dah bermastautin kat Spore ni. Has been 10 years kat sini. Married with a kid. Think will be here for quite a long while. =)

ps: Baru je hari tu belek2 gambar2 lama.. and saw our pics masa my graduation. I was so kurus then (at least kurus than now ler). Help!!!

FairyGodmother said...

Congratulations! Happy Anniversary! Just stumbled upon your blog, and veeerrryyy interesting...so will be clicking often if you don't mind.

And just wondering, is that Zabrina in your wedding picture? She was my hubby's slaamate in uni. Small world.

Will c more of you then.

Ciao'

[rena] said...

Oy!
Update already!